Future plans

Part of the reason I started this, wasn’t so much to be read as a blogger, but because I wanted a place to record our stories.

I feel like everything in my life up to now has been preparing me for this moment.

I want to write about it. I want to share my story with other families. Our struggles. Our triumphs. What I have learned along the way.

I have a 12 year old kid with neuro differences who is highly sensitive and now identifying as LGBTQ.

This is a new world of parenting. Kids never came out as gay at 12 before. Especially not to their parents. I think I am a good mom. But I know I have made mistakes. I wish there was a manual along the way. Something that I could point to and say “aha! This is what I should do.”

I react always from a place of love. I live in perpetual fear of fucking it all up. But at least if I do fuck up I did so trying to love.

Does that help? I hope it does.

Love is love

Published by Xina

I'm a 46 year old wife, mother, sister, and daughter. I am an extrovert with extreme social anxiety. I am a lover of the outdoors who is ridiculously out of shape. I am a walking, talking identity crisis. Welcome to my mess.

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